THIS is the most hostile forum you've ever experienced?? Have you been around any other frog forums...or reptile forums...or...forums?don't be sad, this is the most hostile forum i have ever seen. hang in there and you'll get answers. the search function is also good to use.
Please take this in the way I mean it (friendly, helpful, non-judgmental) but a lot of the more experienced keepers are people in their 30's, 40's and 50's. People of that era (myself included) tend to see posts with no capitalization, misspellings and unreadable grammar...and just sort of move on.
If you have two posts, one sent like a abbreviated text, and the other written clearly, the second will receive real replies.
Perhaps that's why Vespers isn't such a fan.
...not trying to be a prick.