[JimO]

It's only the front toepads that are enlarged. Although the plump body of the first one suggests that it's a female, there is really no way to tell without clear photos.

I'll try and get some better pictures. Thanks. I'm hoping the smaller one is a male. Front pads are big, but back toe pads arent so. The body type leads me to think male as well but I am far from an expert.