Re: I'd like an opinion please.
Here's my opinion:
1. You paid for shipping (overnight shipping I presume), at a premium rate as the seller used larger than normal shipping containers.
2. You provided the seller with the correct address including zip code (correct?)
3. The vendor made a mistake and shipped to the wrong address (mistakes happen I've heard of worse mistakes than this).
4. You (out of concern for the frogs) drove 5 hours each way to pick them up, 10 hours total. I assume you spent at least $75 on gas to do this round trip (not to mention the time spent, etc.).
In my opinion the seller should refund to you whatever your cost of gas was to go pick them up, or the price you paid for shipping.